me and my ex have been happily dating for 8 months. he called it off. before there were signs, he claims to have gotten ';mature';. after personal consulting, my personal counselor believes he was acting cold. he and i are going to the same university, earning the same bachelor degree. there is no doubt that we are force to take the same classes in the future.
what shocks me first is after we broke up, he deleted/blocked me from msn. i confronted him by asking whats the deal b/c school was about to start and i don't want to make this as awkward as it will be. all he could replied is ';im sorry. i have nothing more to say [...] i just dont want to be reminded, crowded and this is the last thing i want.'; wow, maturity huh... especially when we were on the verge of breaking up, he was the one saying ';lets try to remain good contacts if we will actually break up';. so i never talked to him and practically ignored him throughout this current semester b/c he ';needed his space';. i was pretty hurt and suffering a lot b/c i am constantly reminded at school... it was so much for me to bear.
the following is that he finally blocks me from facebook now, on the day where it could have been our first anniversary. great, thats all i need... and it was MONTHS later after he broke up with me.
dont get me wrong, i dont want him back. im dissapointed b/c i thought he would have turn around and try to start things from fresh. not necessary being friends-friends, but at least try to maintain a good vibe as classmates. we are not in highschool anymore. what he has been doing seems to be the actions that i should have done... it seems that i was the one left with the broken heart. i don't want him back, but i do miss that feeling... and yes im somewhat hurt by his actions a lot. he's being so cruel.
what should i do..How to deal with ex blocking/deleting you?
Just move on.. I know it sucks but honestly it would have been best if you two were friends but when someone has to block you it's because they don't want to put you through anything ever again it's an act of fear and giving up, they could have been your friend instead but they know if they are your friend that you two may end up together again so it's the fear of that.. preventing that is by blocking you online, it's sad but your ex really doesn't want to be with you again if they do then it will happen eventually but don't dwell or hope on it learn to move on it will be tough getting over your ex but eventually you will...
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