well as long as your husband has a visitation order in place she cant.. atleast not with out reprocussions.. if he has the order and she's not allowing him to see his child, then he needs to hold her in contempt .. if he doesnt have a visitation order , then he needs to get one established so he can have visitations with his child..lHow to deal with jealous ex wife? When we pay child support and she is not letting us see the child at stake.?
Does your husband have a visitation order in place?
If he does have a visitation order, then he needs to do the following.
1. Send her a demand letter that you can find here.
http://www.lanwt.org/txaccess/lf.asp#VIS鈥?/a>
2. Document any future occurrence of the denials.
3. Once there are 5 denials of visitation, either hire and attorney to file the motion for enforcement or do it yourself.
Request make up periods of time and also request that she be fined, incarcerated, and placed on community supervision for violating the order.
In the eyes of the court and law, you have nothing to do with the case, however the reality of it is that you do. My wife helped me with my custody case by doing research, helping me prepare a line of questioning, etc...
You can do your part in it without stepping on toes, and I say that you've taken the first step by being here inquiring.
I never understand how another woman can't see that a wife with a stepchild wants to be apart of that child's life.
Sorry, but if my husband is paying child support (which in turn effects my household, so yes WE are paying it) and wants me to be just as must in his child's life as him, it IS my business. If my husband is upset because he cannot see his child, I support him and help him.
If your husband has a visitation order and she is refusing to cooperate, he must file a ';contempt of court'; order with the courthouse. He will then get a court date and will have to prove to the judge that she is not following the visitation order.
Best of luck to you both. I understand that the situation can hurt you as much as your husband because I've been there. You just want your husband to be happy and see his child.
Well, you are saying you have stayed out? Well as much as I hate to say this it doesn't sound like it.
This is a matter between him an dhis ex wife you have nothing to do with it.
';We'; pay child support, Not letting ';us'; see the child.
It's his child ';he'; is supposed to be paying the support so ';he'; can see him. None of the decisions regarding the child are your responsibility and quite frankly you have no right to have any involvement unless the mother allows it.
She may feel like you stepping on her toes. I am not saying that is the case. But look if you had a child you might view things different.
My son's fathers girlfriend always is trying to step on my toes. I frankly think she is emotional unstable and in no way do I want my ex back. I just think she is not all there so I am not comfortable with her being around or talking to my child.
If he pays support than there is some kind of custody agreement in place. You can make her abide by it by taking it to the police on his designated visitation time.
Seriously though you need to rethink this. All this we stuff is not staying out of it. Your placing yourself in it. It's up to your man to deal with his baby's momma. He needs to put his foot down. He's is the other parent not you hun.
Sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear. Hope this helps! Good Luck!
Where you pay child support or not she can not stop you from seeing your child.Do you have court order to pay support?If so you should have gotten a visitation schedule. On those days you go to get your child and she doesn't let you see her that is in content of court she can be arrested on the spot. You need to take her back to court and make this clear to her..
Child support and visitation are 2 separate issues. If there is no formal separation agreement, he will need to hire a lawyer and take her to court. If there is one, and she's violating it....call the court and have her put in contempt and violation of the agreement.
That may be part of your ex wife's problem. It is YOUR child support and YOUR child that your should be seeing . . . . the fact that it went from a 'you' to a 'we' your ex probably is taking offense since your current wife has no rights in this situation.
I know you can go get your child support amount reduced since you dont see ur child.. is it court ordered that your suppose to see the child?? I mean she cant hold your kid at well away from you. if you show up with the cops at her house she has to give the child to you... or call a lawyer
Talk to a lawyer and take her back to court. If she's violating the terms of the custody/visitation agreement, it's a legal issue, and one you can talk to a judge about.
I don't see why you should have to pay child support if your wife won't even let you see your child. Get a lawyer to sort something out. It is ridiculous that yu don't have access to a child you are paying for.
paying support or not paying support,has zero bearing on child visitation.
a woman may not withhold visitation rights even if support is not being paid.
they are each a diff issue to address.
If you have visitation rights and the EX isn't letting you see the child, you need to go back to court.
If your paying child support %26amp; there is no order saying you can't see your child you have the legal right to. I'd get a lawyer if I were you.
Jealousy is not a good reason to withhold visitation. A lawyer will need to become involved if there are visitation rights and the mother is violating them for a stupid reason such as jealousy.
you say ';we'; This sounds like a matter for your husband. No disrespect intended toward you.
Haul her a.s.s to court.
you should be a part of the child's life, in spite of her jealousy. talk to your lawyer.
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