How to deal with ex wife using daughter as an excuse?

It never fails ex wife is always using her daughter as an excuse especially when she finds out her ex husband is in a very serious relationship? She pretended as the daughter writing the mail saying who are you going to choose me or your fiancee? The same thing happened 2 weeks ago, my fiance received a letter that I will never be the wife and I will be his mother. It also stated';Im you dtr AND your flesh and blood,'; I believe that the mother is doing al of these. She already brainwashed and manipulatesheryear old 12daughter's mind that her father doesnt care for her anymore.My faincee neglected himself and put himself in a deep hole for his dtr and his ex and I am here to help put him back together. He is trying to figure out what to do. I f she should just ignore it or wait till his dtr turns to her right age and fugure it out herself what her mom did.He is a very responsible for child support never been late and provide her health insurance.Should we just ignore it andwe just move on and let her dtr someday find out about her own mom.How to deal with ex wife using daughter as an excuse?
He should sit down with his daughter and ask how she really feels and express how he feels to her. If you are both serious about being together it might help if the three of you got together and talked about after they have talked.How to deal with ex wife using daughter as an excuse?
No! you don't just sit back and ignore the situations, he need to take her mother to court and get court ordered visitation for his daughter. When she don't comply send her @ss to jail. His daughter's mother might be putting stuff in her head now but if he don't step up then all the stuff that she is being told will seem so true. The little girl will find out about her mom selfish ways soon enough.
Yeah I would try to have a relationship with the daughter but I wouldn't stoop to the ex level. If you do she will know she is getting what she wants f n confusion, I wouldn't give her the satisfaction. The fact that she can't get under your skin will get under hers.
yes cut all ties with that woman she is using the daughter and it is a sick little game for her tell your man to do whats right pay child sup and to not read the letter even more check mail before him and get rid of the letters cut it off before you loss this man
reading this stuff scares me,NOTHING GOOD COMES FROM DIVORCE ITS THE SELFISH EASY COWARDLY WAY OUT AND IT DESTROYS FAMILIES,HEARTS,AND THE CHILDREN THE MOST.WHY CANT US MARRIED COUPLES BE REAL ADULTS AND WORK THINGS OUT INSTEAD OF THE AMERICAN COURT RULED STATISTIC.ITS A DAMN SHAME