Friday, August 20, 2010

How to deal with ex?

Its been a year since i broke up with my gf coz we had problems she was texting another as if he was her bf ....we had a wonderful 3 year relationship untill this guy came but thats a differnt story ....i feel bitter towards here now and i really miss her alot at the same timeHow to deal with ex?
It can take a long time to really get over a serious relationship but you will. But it's been a year, you need to move on. Cut off contact with her completely. There is no reason for you to be in contact with her. Just remember how crappy she treated you, eventually your feelings for her will fade.How to deal with ex?
So has she apologized for her error? She did just text him right? She did not go any farther than that? If she has said that she is sorry that she hurt you and texting was as far as it got with the other guy,,, why not give her another chance,,, Maybe she just was testing the water and now realized you are the guy she most wants to be with. If she is not deceitful and is up front with you what have you got to lose?
Love is your brain memory. How long? About 9 month and your memory is changed. You can remember what happened to you at 7 and may be you will remember her another 9 month. But finally your memory will be erased. If you will meet another girl your old memory will be erased faster. Our love (memory) works like Flash Memory.


Don't miss her because if you was cheated one time that's enough to erase your flash memory in your brain.
you said that she didn't bother helping you out through depression and why should she? like you said you were bitter and rude towards her. she might think that you need space and that's why she's trying to distant herself to you even though in the first place, she was trying to be friends again with you.





you should try to let go of all the bad things that happened between the two of you. it'll ease the pain a little and if so you could open up and talk with each other about how you felt. she might even ask for forgiveness and could repair those bonds, im not saying get back together. but be in good terms.





make this a learning experience for the both of you.
I know that its so hard to deal with break ups especially when you love someone but I think that its really time that you let her she may have hurt you bad and you may be depressed but you need to let her go or spend time to yourself and enjoy being single and by yourself before you jump back in a relationship with her
I know you probably don't want to hear this, but if she cheated on you once she would probably do it again. I promise if you will keep your distance from her and make yourself available to other people, you will find someone else that can make you forget all about her. It just takes a little time.Betrayal by someone you have loved hurts really bad not to mention how much it hurts your pride and self esteem ! It feels like you want comfort the most from the one that is hurting you! You deserve better than this. Do something for yourself to help build your confidence back..like working out, new hairstyle, or just hanging around people who know what a good person you are and that will encourage you in your life. Good Luck!!
bust the windows out her car. like that jazmine sullivan song hahahahahahaha.





nah on the real. just ignore her and move on with your life. life is too short to be crying over a hoe.
If she is talking to another dude then maybe for her is over you just need to try to find some one else but if you still want ot go with her then try it but it would be worse
COLD TURKEY! HAVING THESE LOVE/HATE FEELINGS ABOUT YOUR EX IS ONLY MAKING U MISERABLE. YOU HAVE TO FORGET HER AND NOW.BEFORE IT DESTROYS YOU.

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