How does one deal with ex (father of my son) He makes everything harder than has to be Plays to many games?

I'm sorry that you're going through that... this situation is all too common now. My sister is going through the EXACT same thing with her ex husband. Sadly there is no real way other than just growing a thicker skin and letting it roll off your back. He plays these games to get to you... because he knows he can. Don't let him. It will be like this for a long time... if not always... so all you can really do is let him do what ever it is but make sure that he's not breaking any custody rules. If he does that then set a court date for EVERY time he does something like that. The court fees will kill him... and there might be custody changes... Those games will eventually stop. Stand up to him when you have to... but any games that are not VITAL just let them go. I'm sorry....How does one deal with ex (father of my son) He makes everything harder than has to be Plays to many games?
You deal with them patiently.





Just maintain your focus on your son. Nothing else matters at this point. Try avoiding conflict with your ex by getting rid of the disappointment you have for him. I am sure it can be upsetting some times, especially, if your ex doesn't realize the pain and confusion he causes. Just be strong yet remain calm. Things will change for the better.How does one deal with ex (father of my son) He makes everything harder than has to be Plays to many games?
im in the same situation but with my husbands ex. She is so immature and plays all these little games, totally negative envirorment for her son (my step son). You just have to be the bigger person and ignore it for the most part. Most likely it is for attention. do not give him your attention.


Hope this helps.
Tell him to go **** himself (ooops), I mean shoo!!!!
if you can try not to compete when he starts playing games, i.e. if he tries t one up you don't bother trying to one up him, don't even get mad just ignore it. Eventually he should get frustrated that you won't play his games.
Well, it kind of depends on how he's making things difficult. The legal route isn't bad. You don't even have to sue or go to family court. You can try some free mediation. For instance try the Center for Conflict Resolution at Loyola Law School in Downtown Los Angeles. If you can afford it, you can try family counseling.
dont play his games. make everything simple. only discuss issues about your son. make it clear to him you dont have any reason to disguss anything else.